Uncomfortable Prayers
Author: Peter Leibensperger
June 17, 2020
What is the
most difficult prayer for you to pray right now? The answer to this question
likely will be different for everyone, and I’ve been reflecting on it quite a
bit lately.
I think of
Jesus’s prayer in the garden, “Yet not as I will, but as you will,” teaching us to submit to God’s plans even in the darkest corner of
the valley of death. I think of the worst times in my father’s life where he
desperately prayed for Jesus to love him even as he felt his faith slipping
away. I think of my neighbors of color who pray for social justice and equality
even in the face of hundreds of years of oppression. What prayer just feels too
impossible, or too frightening, or too humbling that its utterance is painful?
One of the most challenging prayers I’ve come across in my
life can be found in the third stanza of Katherine Grimes’s hymn text, “Teach
Me Thy Will, O Lord,” written in 1935. I hope you also enjoy the opportunity
that this text provides to reflect upon the manifold ways that God teaches us:
Teach me Thy will, O Lord, teach me Thy way;
Teach me to
know Thy word, teach me to pray.
What e’er seems
best to Thee, that be my earnest plea,
So that Thou
drawest me closer each day.
Teach me Thy wondrous
grace, boundless and free.
Lord let Thy blessed
face shine upon me.
Heal Thou sin's
every smart, dwell Thou within my heart;
Grant that I never
part, Savior from Thee.
Teach me by
pain Thy power, teach me by love;
Teach me to
know each hour Thou art above.
Teach me as
seemeth best in Thee to find sweet rest;
Leaning
upon Thy breast, all doubt remove.
Teach Thou my
lips to sing; my heart to praise;
Be Thou
my Lord and King thro’ all my days.
Teach Thou my
soul to cry, “Be Thou, dear Savior, nigh,
Teach me to
live, to die, saved by Thy grace.”
Amen.
The line that
stands out to me is “Teach me by pain Thy power.” When I think about what that
means it makes me very uncomfortable. Why would we ever pray for a loving God
to subject us to pain just to teach us that God is more powerful than we? Aren’t
pain and discomfort things to be avoided?
This line just felt so
challenging to me that I decided to live with it for several weeks and then
reset Grimes’s poem to new music back in 2005. I was inspired by the
juxtaposition of joy and sadness, pain and pleasure, all of which God uses to
teach us, and through which God is always with us. I decided to start in E
minor with a somber, chantlike melody, but ultimately it lifts to F major with
rich counterpoint, and each verse grows in complexity. The Chancel Choir is
familiar with this piece, but, if you’re interested in hearing it, you may find
it here:
Teach Me Thy Will, O Lord. I hope this piece touches you and causes you to
reflect upon what you might ask God to teach you.
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